Allow her to submit to you
MEN!! Listen up, and listen well!! Female submission, is it possible? I know that there are men who wonder why their women don't "submit" to them? Well, this could be for a number of reasons. Men, I want you to ask yourself a question? Who, or what is she submitting too? What I mean by that question is this. If you are the type of man that goes out all the time, likes to sleep around. Lie a lot, you're lazy, have no goals, no drive. How is she suppose to trust that you will take care of her?
This goes back to the security tip I explained in the 5 things. She has to feel, and know that you will take care of her. I know that now a days, you keep hearing women say. "I can do it all by myself". That may be the case but do they WANT to do it by themselves...no they don't. Sad to say that, they are FORCED to do it by themselves. Because of men like what I described earlier.
So TRUST and BELIEVE, for a woman to submit to you. That kind of respect, is EARNED, not given. You claim to be the man of the house, so ACT LIKE IT!! She will begin to let her guard down, and you will be her superman. Now I have also heard that women want a man who is firm, and not a pushover. In other words, put them in there place. If you can find me a woman that can actually honor those words without a lot of hell to pay. Let me know when you do.
So basically, this kinda goes towards the old saying. Nice guys finish last. I know that there are a lot of men who have been disappointed, hurt, and VERY confused by this statement. You may have wondered, how can you be too nice?? You try to give her the world, making sure that she is pleased as much as possible. Saying yes to just about everything she request right? WRONG!! If she begins to feel that you are a pushover. She will walk all over you. I have heard women say that. So, its fine to tell her no sometimes. If she cannot respect that. Then mabey she is not the one for you, simply because of this.
Noone gets everything they want. So men, there is a balance here. Don't be too nice, and don't be too mean. She will test you, just to see how far she can take it. Thats when its time to let her know that you are not going to be punk, and do not be abusive. Guaranteed deal breaker there. See how these things that men are supposed to do naturally get tested by our women? She is seeing if you are going to be that protector she needs. Because if she begins to feel that she can walk over you. She will begin to feel that everyone else will be able to also.