Relationship Importance
To have a healthy relationship is VERY important! Simply because, it holds on to the worlds future. What I mean by the future, is our children. What they see in the home, will be applied to their lives. If they see abuse, spitefullness, separation, divorce. Well, more than likely that is what they will do. Now, you do have a few who do have bad relationships, or bad examples. Then the children decide on their own that they are not going to be the same way, rare cases though. Are there wonderful relationships at home and the kids go the total opposite way, yes there is. But what I am saying is, give your children a fair chance.
We say we want whats best for our kids, it starts at home. There has been a case when the father has abuse the mother while the kids were there. Now the kids have turned into teens. The father and mother are no longer together. But you will never guess what these kids are doing to mom now. You may have guessed it. THEY are now hitting mom! She has been hospitalized and all. So kids only know, what they see.
Show them that is ok to be loving, affectionate. Fathers teach your sons on how to be there for their wives. Mothers teach your daughters how to be there for their husbands. The best way to do this is to lead by example. The world populates by the means of a relationship. That is where it starts.
Relationships have a process, meeting, dating, marriage, then a family. Which the kids in that family will eventually grow up and have there own relationships, and the process repeats. So hopefully you have given them the proper examples to continue on and live and have a great relationship. You owe it to them.