MALE EGO I have heard ladies say, "I don't want to babysit a man's ego"! And thats fine, you are entitled to your own opinion. Ladies, you really do not understand the power you posess. NOTHING can motivate a man, like a woman. It has also been said, "behind every great man, is a great woman" and I believe this. God knew what he was doing when he made you all. You are here to support us. Does that mean that you are less important, no not at all. Actually you are VERY important! Men LOVE it when a woman cheers him on. Especially when he has a great accomplishment. It makes us want to push even harder.
Some women know about stroking the man's ego. But unfortunately use it for the wrong reasons, which usually backfires. But for a woman who truly loves her man. WOW! I guarantee you this. President Barak Obama, or ANY great man, would have NOT made it to the white house, or achieved greatness. If he had a non-supportive wife, or woman to be there when he needed her. Telling him, "you can do it"!
Men love it when we give you something nice, and your SO surprised and thankful!! Its and INSTANT feed to the ego inside we light up! Its like,"yeah, I did that right there". So, the ego is what drives him, it makes him pick it up a notch or two. Be careful though, it can break him also. Which is why I said earlier, do not use it for all the wrong reasons. Women who do use it for the wrong reasons. Contributes to a man being no good anymore.
Ladies, I want you to try and understand something. We may appear to be this hard, ruff-n-tuff, macho man. In reality, we are not. Society has is it to where we are supposed to be these unrealistic, unemotional beings. When in reality, we are big babies, we can be hurt too. We cry also, but we do not want you to see that. Unfortunatly, some women look at it as a sign of weakness, your a punk. Thats that ego being on the line. From birth, we love a woman's touch. Its our sedative at the end of a hard day.
For a man to show his heart to you, would be the best thing that could happen to you ladies. Our love is special too. I know love when a man shows some sensitivity to your needs, and wants. The last thing you want to do is make him feel less of a man, and loose that. So do know that the ego is the root, the soul, and the make up of a man. Treat it wisely, and you will benefit from it greatly.