I Missed You!!
Have you ever heard the phrase? "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". Come to find out, this is very true. Some people while in a relationship. They want to spend every living minute with their mate. Sad to say, this in not really a good idea. What I am saying is this. Give each other some space sometimes. It does not mean that you two do not love each other. You will be surprised how you will feel when you do not see each other for a little while.
For the men, I know that you may have the woman that has to be under you all day, everyday. And you want to tell her back off a little bit. This one is touchy. Simply because of the typical reaction from women. They usually think that, you are losing feelings for them, or there is someone else you want to spend time with. This is not always the case. Women go through the same thing. But the perception from them is this.
They will begin to think that you may be weak. Like you just can't live without them. And that is not the image you want to paint in a woman's mind. There is nothing wrong with a little space. There has to be a balance here. Its ok for one of you to go away for a day or two. Miss each other!! Then once you have returned to each other. The sparks will fly!! I once was working overseas. I would call my wife just about everyday.
Eventually, we started to run out of things to talk about over the phone. Just listening to each other breathe. So, I proposed to not talk for a few days. She understands the whole concept behind missing one another. I did not call for about a week. Once we heard each others voice. It was like we just met all over again. So trust me, this works. Now the challenge in telling your mate that you need space is typically more harder for the men than it is for women.
The challenge is, how do I say this without hurting her? What makes it a little easier to get away from one another. Is to have a life outside of your mate. Does this mean, another lover? No, not at all. You have a hobby, friends, something that you find interesting to occupy your time while you are building up to the moment of magic. Take small steps in this. Start off with a day, then try to increase it a little bit more. I would say no more than about 3 days. Learn how to miss each other. I guarantee, you will be pleased with the results!