FORGIVENESS
Forgiveness- is typically defined as the process of concluding resentment, indignation or anger as a result of a perceived offense, difference or mistake, and/or ceasing to demand punishment or restitution
This is one of the key factors to being able to love freely!! Does it mean that you are being weak, or giving the one that hurt you power? No, not at all. It just helps to give you the peace that makes it easier to move on with your life. Because holding on to a grudge, many negative things can take root in you. Like resentment, bitterness, vengeance and hostility.
The first step to this, is give it TIME. Everything in life takes time. I know sometime that is not what you want to hear when you are going through your pain. You want it to be fixed as soon as possible. But in time, you will heal. You must learn how to forgive one another, no matter what happens. When you don't forgive, you are blocking off a section of your heart that could be replaced with love. Not only just forgive them for what they done. But do it for YOURSELF! FREE YOURSELF!! Once you let it go, you will feel so much better. Then its easier to move on, continuing to love with no boundaries.
Now is forgiving someone always easy, no its not. Sometimes it is one of the hardest things to do. Depending on what it was that was done to you. God has helped me in this matter SO much! I have learned over time. There is the "flesh" side of things. Then there is the "spiritual" side of things. The flesh is where it gets hard. Kinda goes back to the old saying, WWJD? Once you have been in that realm for a while. You begin to understand and distinguish the differences between the flesh side, and the spiritual side of things.
People are going to rub you the wrong way. Thats just life. In some relationships the pain goes a LOT deeper. So yes, it is hard to forgive. But as I said before. FREE YOURSELF!! Its ok to open your heart again. Just remember and grow from your situation/s that you have had. Teach someone else, help someone else grow also. For further info on how to patch things up with the one you love. Take a look a the links below, and hopefully it will help you get that burning passionate love back. Be blessed.